Tale 9 : "Being Present"
"Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future,
concentrate the mind on the present moment".
- Buddha
- Buddha
This tale came about when
I was at a dinner party and it was one of those great dinner parties where you have
the opportunity to reconnect with some old friends that you haven't seen for a
while. However, there was one aspect of the party I was quite disappointed
at. So I decided to tell mum about it.
"Mum, I have this
friend that I find really annoying and others agree too. I have to say he is not
a close friend as such but we do meet up from time to time" I said with
frustration.
"So what was it that
he did that you find annoying?" asked my mum.
"Well, last night I
was at a dinner party and I was chatting with him and he asked me a
question and as I was trying to respond to his question he totally ignored
my response and turned his head and started to chat with the other person
sitting next to him. It was quite embarrassing and annoying as at the same time
the other people at the table also noticed what was going on. One of my friends
looked at me and rolled his eyes and said "He does it all the time, when
he is not interested in a conversation". The most annoying part was when
he decided to resume our conversation he did not bother to apologise and
totally ignored the whole thing. Why does he bother asking me if he wasn’t
interested?" I asked Mum.
Mum smiled and said
"Sometimes people live with an absent mind and they are not present even
when they are there with you but their minds have drifted to another
place. Many people live their whole lives lost in thoughts of the
yesterday and the tomorrow, the true meaning is we should live in the present
moment everyday, this is where everything happens. Yesterday was the past,
tomorrow is only a promise, today is when you can do something about it in
order to have a brighter future. So, take action and be present and live in the
present moment".
So you ask, what does being
present have to do with running your business?
In fact, it has everything
to do with it. Being present means being fully conscious of what's going
on around you so you are able to participate in the opportunities that are presented
to you. If you are not being present in what you do, you are not focused
or clear with what you are attempting to achieve.
Sometimes, we are not
present because we're not in it. We keep thinking of the past, what we should
have done and so forth... or dreaming about future, like dreamers do. We put
ourselves to believe that tomorrow's the day when we'll shine, be richer, be healthier
and in a great loving relationship. All these are only wishes, all these will
only come true if we take accountability and take action today.
Today is the key to change, not yesterday nor tomorrow.
Being present takes lots of
focus and practice. To do this you need to be
engaged in that moment at that point in time and also by really listening
to your surroundings. If you are engaged in a conversation with someone, you
need to be focused and be present and listening to what they saying. This is
particularly hard when you are not present, your mind will fall in a trend of
thoughts about other things such as what to wear for a special dinner or all
the tasks you have yet to finish.
Does this sound familiar to you?
Are the thoughts that are running through your
mind distract you and create a distance from the present situation? I have
to say, guilty as charged! What I
am now trying to do is to be more aware so that I can be more “present” in
each and every moment. Remember being present will take sometime to master,
however, if there is a will then there is always a way!
Below are some tips to
help you in being present in your business:
- Be
the observer and look outside of your world. Invest in business books and
read them to stimulate your mind and get inspired with new ideas.
- Listen
to business audios, chat with like minded business owners, join business
network groups to exchange ideas and build connections.
- Open
your mind to the universe, let your thoughts flow and be less judgmental
and this is how you can find inspirational sparks and great ideas.
- Taking
time out of your business will do wonders. It will give you a fresh
perspective to life and business. People who adopt this are much more
focused and present in their business.
- "Me
time" and "Refresh" are the best ways to relax your mind
and rejuvenate
your soul. Take time out for the gym, participate in yoga and meditation sessions
will also help you in being present. Do whatever you feel will calm your
mind and relax your body. We are all different so find an activity that will
relax you and help find the inner peace in you.
- Cleanse
your mind to gain new ideas that allow you and your creative business to
grow and for you to be present and engaged in your business.
- If
you are present, you are constantly focusing on your sales and marketing leads and continually developing new
products, services and innovation ideas to growth your business
- When you find your mind
distracted and puts you in the future or
the past mode, just refocus your awareness back to the present. Really
experience how you feel and what's happening around you, without judgment.
If we can treasure each moment, your life will be abundant, no matter what
you have accomplished.
So are you present in your business?
Tune in for next week tale Ten... "Chicken Scratches for What it gets "
More Tales My Mother Told Me...
Volume 1:
Volume 1:
Tale 2: "Your Mind is Powerful"
Tale 4: "Being Compassionate"
Tale 6: "The Magic Pen"
Tale 8: "Confidence & Competence"
Tale 11:"I never see what has been done; I only see what remains to be done"
Tale 12: "Frog In The Well"
Tale 12: "Frog In The Well"
Volume 2:
Tale 3: Talking about army on paper.
Tale 4: Being Persistent
Tale 5: A Poet’s Writing Skills Decline
2 comments:
Brilliant. Thank you Vinh.
Thanks Sally, I am glad you enjoyed this tale. Being present every moment in time is very hard to master. However with practice and awareness we can learn to be being present in our life and business. Thanks for visiting ArtSHINE's blog
Vinh
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